8 month old kitty we are rescuing from the humane society. We pick her up next Thursday.
Name suggestions?


1/8 Cherokee and a lot of freckles.
8 month old kitty we are rescuing from the humane society. We pick her up next Thursday.
Name suggestions?


Dear Christopher,
We need a cat. And this is why:

Third snake in a matter of a few days! I mean, I know this is just a garter snake and the other two were harmless black snakes, but I still don’t want them nipping at my heels in the house eventually (Genesis 3.15). Look at him hugging the wall! He is just trying to break in.
So, get that silver tabby from Petsmart. Your sister said we were allowed to get one. And Mr. Rufus loves cats. And so does Abed-nego. And so do you. And me too.
It has been an interesting past couple weeks for yard work.

Weeding the front flowerbeds and pulling up roots.
Taken with Chris’ enV touch.
Chris and I aren’t too big fans of bushes and the bushes we had were very oddly shaped and not taken care of. So… We just pulled them up. Instead, we are planting herbs and such to continue the whole cottage look. At this point, we have salvia and lavender planted. Soon we’re going to add lemon balm and perhaps rosemary. It looks so much better. I’ve read that deer won’t eat salvia or lavender, so our plants should be safe. Come spring, we’ll plant wild flowers along the back.
Salvia!

What a cold, wet, gross day. The good news is that I have parked in my driveway for the past couple of days, the first time I have been able to do so without being half-way in a bush and having to drop Chris off in the street. It is beyond nice.
Christopher’s parents and sister came into town last night for a visit to celebrate Chris’ birthday. He’ll be 24 tomorrow. This morning, we were stuck in Rivermont because the avenue was closed for the Virginia ten-miler. We took advantage of it by getting up early to walk down to Magnoli Foods and munch on muffins while watching the race. Elizabeth and I decided to run the Turkey Trot together this year–the children’s one-mile race, that is.
After talking to Chris’ aunt who is in the medical field, it sounds like Chris and I may have had swine flu about a week ago. Ha! Did I ever even mention that I had been sick? Well, I was. And I didn’t die. So, that’s good.
I’ve been thinking of the past a lot. Been thinking of undergrad. Been thinking of being 19 and dorm life. My dorm was built on a graveyard, land that the college didn’t actually ever buy. They kind of just took it….
I loved all of the history of that place. I was so real, but the streets felt utterly haunted at times.
A lot has changed.


And Chris had really, really long hair.
Girls in the dining hall and the library would tell him that he looked like someone famous.


It was a good experience and a big part of me misses it while feeling thankful to be where I am now.
Everything felt so far and impossible back then.
Longwood crosses my mind from time to time. I miss the campus, the big tree that turned bright orange in the fall, the bells that chimed every hour. I miss Main Street and High Street. The rest of Farmville and Prince Edward County, I could do without. But lately Longwood has been on my mind for different reasons.
Quadruple homicide. Some guy flew in from California to visit his girlfriend and ended up murdering four people. The police are having to use dental records to identify the bodies since they were so badly decomposed. It was a professor’s house, so it seems that everyone is assuming that one of the bodies is that of the professor and the other three are her family members. They do know, though, that one body is the professor’s husband and the other three are females.
There are a lot of dark secrets in Farmville. I could drive around town and point to various houses, stores, and so on and tell of the stories. One house where a man killed his wife. The building in which doctors supposedly conducted illegal abortions in the attic. The trainstation where the new bell fell on a girl and killed her. In fact, there is some connection between a relative of Thomas Jefferson and a raped and murdered slave. There are lots of stories, more than I know, and part of this is because it is such an old small town. I’m sure every city has its secrets, but, man, how eerie must all of the students feel? They caught him in the Richmond air port and he confessed.
The bodies were found at 505 First Ave. I know that street–I drove down it every day for two years. My first dorm backed up to it. I know that house. I feel terrible for the students. What is wrong with some people?
It has been an interesting weekend. My parents and grandma came to visit with plans to do some yard work. The house we bought came with a huge, out-of-control hedge that must have been–I don’t know–twelve feet tall. It had to go. So, my dad and Chris cut it down to about three feet with a chain saw and a trimmer. It was quite an adventure and a neighborhood event. At least five sets of neighbors came to check it out, say how happy they were to see it go, and compliment their work. The little boy next door even helped throw away some twigs. That is, until his grandfather pointed out that there was poison ivy in the pile as well. Ha! And now I can actually put my car in the driveway once the trashman picks up all the shrubbery. They also pulled up all of the bushes in the front yard, which were all mis-shaped, so we are planning out new plants to put in this fall.
My dad using the chainsaw and Chris pulling away the branches

My mom and I had some other serious work to do: apple picking. We went to Gross’ apple orchard in Bedford to get apples, which she plans to use to make apple butter. I have been wanting to go apple picking since we moved here over two years ago, so it was nice to get out there with mountains all around, wander through a country store, and pick out our fresh apples.
The orchard


I’m trying to not overload this blog with photographs. Here are my favorite pictures from Stephanie and Bernard’s engagement shoot this evening. I think they came out great if I say so myself.






The collison of summer and autumn.
We spent the day painting the hall.
Four hours of painting and all we have to show is one coat on the wood work,
but the hall and stairwell have six doorways and a window sooo…
I like our fall wreath a lot.
I really enjoy creating new traditions and following old ceremonies.
I look forward to the thought up putting up this same wreath every year from now on
as we welcome in the fall.

I am not a football fan. Hello, Sims 3. I guess.
After church, Chris spent the majority of the day on campus training for his English teaching position. I cannot express how grateful we both are that it all worked out. It has been mentioned numerous times that usually these positions are reserved for those with doctorates, and a big part of why he was able to get the job was because his thesis chair continually emphasized that he’d be working toward his doctorate. And, well, he is, which is another unbelievably amazing change this year. Ahh, I know I have gone over this already, but it really amazes me how wonderfully life has unfolded. Beyond grateful.
As Chris learned about all of his new, exciting duties, I cleaned up the house some, did some school work, and talked to my mom for about an hour. They are coming to visit next weekend with plans to do some house work and hopefully some play time as well. My mom, Chris, and I want to go apple picking. We always have projects to do around the house, especially with that monster hedge needing to be cut, but we should do fun things too. I’ll see what convincing I can do.

Our weekends are the best.
We have kept our windows open all week. The neighbors are building an extension to their house, so the wind smells of fresh wood. At night, the crickets create quite a ruckus and the house gets very chilly–a good excuse to cuddle up and share a blanket. It always reminds me of nights out in the mountains, under the trees, and the feeling persists in the morning. Cool with a smell in unique air. I’ve missed backpacking this summer and into the fall, we still have interference with each weekend. I have needed to see some trees. We both have.
Today we went to the Apple Orchard Falls Trail, which is about thirty minutes from our house. We decided against doing the whole loop because I just didn’t feel like going for six miles. Instead, we hiked out and back, taking a few detours with a total of 100 minutes of steep hiking. The ferns and vegetation were all quite full, seeming to go on forever. In a month, the forest will be a very different story.

My favorite boy.

This month, we reached two years and three months of being married. It has been good.
September 11th. Again. I never know how to feel all the way on these days–sometimes sad, sometimes angry, sometimes fearful. It is difficult to separate the reality of tragedy from the manipulation that followed. I’ll never forget where I was and how confused too–block one, Spanish two, 10th grade. And then I came home from school to find our furniture missing and my parents missing as well. They were just moving the office from our living room upstairs to the room over the garage. Ah.
I think that we may take to the Parkway to hike the Apple Orchard tomorrow. Maybe. I hear the hike is rather rough and long, but the loop boasts amazing waterfalls.
Today we went on a quest to find an autumn wreath for our door. First, we tried Farm Basket, but they didn’t really have too much. And that place is quite expensive. Instead, we ended up getting one from Target. I thought of making my own, but, really, it would have cost about the same and I’m not that into wreathing. Or whatever.
My cousin Zach has been in town visiting, so we had dinner with him, my aunt, and his sister. It was great to see him–he has been in Charleston since the summer because he joined the Navy. He is taking all sorts of science and math classes, like a crash course in high school physics completed in a week. It sounds like utter torture to me because I am far from being math or science-minded. That is what he is good at, though, and he got into the nuclear engineering program like his dad. He has a lot of potential, just wasn’t into the whole college thing, so I think the Navy will be really great for him. I have seen far too many college freshmen dragging their feet through school just to drop out and waste a lot of money because their hearts weren’t in it. In such a case, it seems a lot smarter to figure out a better fit.
On another note, I’ve been seeing and hearing people use the word “deconstruct” improperly in the media and in print. It is not synonymous with “analyze,” guys. Come on.
I have a major crazy headache. :/ I’m thinking of cuddling up and watching Stardust Memories. I adore the ending.
Sometimes I do feel like I’m on the wrong train.

The AC units off for the first time since we moved in, September breezes are making our little house more than comfortable. It is so quiet without the window unit hums.
Chris was given his teaching assignment for C term. Two courses. :) For a moment, there were some questions about possibly having to wait until D term because of silly paper work. It is all smoothed out now, though.
Went to work today… Did school work… Ate lots of lettuce…
After dinner, Chris mowed the lawn while Abed-nego and I sat in the backyard with him. Then we went for over an hour long walk down Rivermont, Peakland, and back again. Every street we turn down is lined with amazing, old homes. I love this side of town. Such a dream to live here.
Now we are home, watching the Presidential address on health care, hoping. Just hoping. So many people need help. I certainly know I could have used it while in grad school. Things are going better for us now financially, but, man, I could still use it.
“…who will blame him if he does pay homage to the beauty of the world?”
We’ll see how long that lasts.
You’d have to be something serious to share words with T.S. Eliot and Ezra Pound.
Finally finding time to read again.
Work is slow.
My doctoral classes are coming easy.
Things are good.
Wasn’t Virginia just beautiful?


My favorite

My eyes feel weird. Fuzzy.
Chris and I have been looking through old photos of Lynchburg on the historic society webpage, thinking of buying a few prints. It is amazing to see how the city has changed yet also to be able to recognize the houses on Rivermont despite the photos being well over a hundred years old. We thought of buying a few photos of postcards featuring Rivermont and downtown with plans to frame them and hang them on either side of the large doorway going into the dining room. Our living room has been needing some more pictures and decorations to bring it all together. In the end, Chris had the idea to check ebay to see if there were any postcards online and I am so glad that we did. The historic society demanded $7 to download a scanned copy of the postcards, yet we found the same ones on ebay for just $5, including shipping. Awesome to get an actual old postcard too. So, we have a couple thus far and plan to get a few more.
Today we picked up some frames for them, which were 40% off at Michael’s. That is the place to go for frames. Seriously.
We also went by Barnes and Noble where I had intended to buy Wuthering Heights. For some reason I have been wanting to read that and Jane Eyre. Never in my life have I felt any sort of desire to read these books or anything by the Bronte sisters, but they have been on my mind lately. Instead, I decided on To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf. I think that says something about me, but I’m not entirely sure what. I think I’ll pick up Salman Rushdie’s Satanic Verses when I finish this.
Today I have…
gone to church
had lunch with Charity, Andrew, Stephanie, Bernard, and Amber at Olive Garden
felt the need to go for a walk after Olive Garden–alfredo is too good
finished up school work for the week
spent a good portion of my time watching Planet Earth.
I still really hate the current Prius commercial. All those human bodies and human arms freak me out–especially with that terrifying sun! It reminds me of the end of House on Haunted Hill or whatever it was called. You know, with the souls of all the victims stuck in a blob. That movie really disturbed me.
OK, how about a walk to burn off some of those breadsticks?

This is me pretending to be sasquash.
Everyone has been talking about fall these days since the weather decided to suddnely change for good on August 31st. To me, though, it feels nothing like fall. I try to drink a pumpkin spice latte to get in the mood, wear hoodies, count the autumns passed in various locations and how it made me feel. I remember walking Abed-nego around Longwood’s campus in my orange sweater, hearing chants from students with a beer bong, but enjoying the lovely brick work and night fountains of the university. And Ruffner at night. And Grainger too. So many English classes. I loved Longwood and miss it, but am glad to be where I am in life.
As I was saying, though, I cannot convince myself that this is in fact fall weather. Instead, it simply seems to be a second spring. Spring is my favorite season. So, I take as many walks as I can and run as far as I can, enjoying the trees because once those leaves are gone, they are gone for a long, long time.
Hollins Mill

The first week of intensives is overrr! Now just four more class meetings. I honestly miss English classes a bit, but being in an actual classroom has been really great. We have some excellent professors here and I really feel like I could benefit from their knowledge and experience.
In undergrad and grad school, we quite often had that one middle-aged adult returning to school. I always felt bad for them since they seemed out of place among all of us in our early to mid twenties. Now, though, I am the young one in the class (probably the youngest) among all of the middle-aged adult students. It is difficult explaining my situation to most of the students. “I’m taking doctorate classes in education and also getting licensure. Yes, yes, I have an MA in English. Yes, I know I look young enough to be your daughter, but I am twenty-three.” It has been fun and I feel thankful to be completing my education now instead of having to go back later.
I’ve been rather busy with school work, yet managed to have dinner at Stephanie’s the other night as planned. We played video games, watched a movie, and talked about her wedding plans. They are thinking about setting their date for May and might look into an outdoor wedding. Of course, everyone knows that I am the big warner with outdoor weddings. Allllways have a back-up plan. Darn that tropical storm Barry. We got lucky, though, because I actually had considered changing the cermony site to where we had our reception–and where the ceremony ended up taking place–and I wasn’t disappointed at all. Perhaps extra stressed and uncertain at first, but I don’t think I would have changed much.
Rather soon we are going to take engagement photos of Stephanie and Bernard. Can’t wait to give them some quality shots. They’re so perfect for one another.
At some point tonight, I’ll be off on a run down Rivermont and then I’ll make an awesome salad for dinner. While we were moving and renovating the house, my diet was rather awful and we were not able to exercise at all. House work in the morning, work during the day, house work at night, and school work through the late night. I’ve been making a big effort to better my nutrition these past few weeks and I think it has gone well.
I want to pull up the bushes out front and replace them with blue berries this fall.
Ah, I just got back from a run at Blackwater Creek. For the first time, running on the trails did seem to help my shins. I rarely have issues with my shins, but they have hated me this week, and running on the dirt really seemed to help. So does going up hill, but who in their crazy mind actually enjoys running up hill? Not me.
I’m kind of stoked because I have exercised three days out of the four this week so far, just taking yesterday off because of my shins and major sleepiness.
Quesadilla night at Stephanie’s! Yayz! Intensive tomorrow. Not yayz.
The blogs died for a little while yesterday, but they are back. I’m not sure what happened or what changed to fix them even. This seems to happen about once a year or so. I did have 65 spam comments waiting to be deleted yesterday, so I wonder if that had something to do with it. Ah.
On the way home from work yesterday, we decided to go by Blue Marlin to pick up some salmon. The past few times that we have thought to get fish from Kroger, we just ended up walking away from the counter because it looked so bad and when we would buy it anyway, something didn’t taste right. I had heard that Blue Marlin, which is a market and a sit-down deli, has very fresh, great seafood that is also reasonably priced and it is on the way home, just about a mile from our house. It. was. amazing. The salmon looked completely different, it was bigger than the pieces at Kroger, and it tasted clean and fresh. To take advantage of the great weather, we grilled the salmon out back and had a dinner picnic in the shade while Chris told me of all the wonders of fish oil. Fall is coming indeed.
Afterward, we did the dishes and split a pumpkin spiced latte. We sat outside in the gazebo with our hoodies and talked of plans for Christmas. I had spent every Christmas trying to get Chris excited about the holidays without making any progress at all. We didn’t even have a tree last year because we were gone so much. This year, though, he is just as stoked as me to decorate.
Then we went to the grocery store… I did my school work… Exercised for 45 minutes… Passed out on the couch.
I have a ton of school work this week and then an intensive this weekend. Not looking forward to it. Agh.